I've got a confession to make. I use Loveawake.com to cheat on my wife. Why am I telling you this? Because she recently found out, my marriage is over for good and I don't want other guys to get into the trap I got into. I also want women to know why guys do what they do when it comes to cheating. My wife and I had been married for about three years, going on four. Things were okay in the first two years, but then I started getting antsy.

I wanted to see her more, have sex with her more, but she was always out working and building her career. I have my career, too, but it's not as hectic as hers. The more she succeeded in her career, the worse I felt. I don't know why yet, but I'm getting therapy to find out. Anyway, I saw online dating sites as a great way to meet other women who I could hang out with when my wife wasn't around. I used Loveawake.com A LOT!

On the site, I didn't tell chicks I was married. Instead, I lied and told them I was single, had no kids and was looking for the right woman. What did I get for all of my lies? I'd date a woman for a few months, have sex with her a few times, then leave. I'd create different profiles after each affair so the women who use Loveawake.com wouldn't catch on. Well, the gig was up when I met a woman who ended up knowing my wife through another girlfriend of hers.

It was terrible the day my wife confronted me and I realized I did all of this for nothing. Losing my wife wasn't worth the pay I suffered. Women, check these dating sites from time to time. You may just find your man's profile on one of them! Thanks for letting me vent! I'm sure that my wife is going to put me on DDHG very soon and I truly deserve it! -- Marco